PLEASE HELP ME! Im having a ISSUE... i need your advice!!!?

okay... i know i already asked this question... but i maybe needed to rephrase ... Okay... for starters.... i am 29, i have had irregular periods all my life... for the past year, i have been having my period every other month... last being the beginning of october....needless to say my husband and i have unprotected everyday... WELL, on new years eve i wiped when i used the facility, and noticed a little pink blood, not much and only happened when i wiped... none in my panties, SO... nothing that night.... on january 1st only one time i wiped in mid afternoon, and it was pink as well.... so, today is the 3rd and my husband and i had rough about 1 hour ago... and i came downstairs and felt extremely wet, so i wiped my self and it was dark red blood... no cramping.... now, my question is.... could i have had implantation bleeding on new years eve, and and possibly bleeding due to ? this has never happened before and we were really hoping to be pregnant... any answers would be extremely helpful, and re-uring!